The Humanist touch

Peter Hutchinson meets the new Humanist Chaplain

For many people the term Humanist chaplain will seem absurd. A contradiction in terms. Sacrilegious even. They may have a point. It is, after all, a philosophy, a way of life. It is not a religion, although Humanists claim it can still be spiritual. Humanists do not believe in God or the afterlife. This is the only life there is and people must do their best to make it a good one, they say.

In September, Queen's University in Belfast became one of the first educational institutions in the UK to appoint a Humanist chaplain. It was approached by the Belfast Humanist Group who said they should be added to the 15 faiths already represented which included Baptist, Methodist, and the Chinese Church. The proposal went before the university's senate and Ruth Yeo, who was vice chairman of the group, was appointed.

A spokesperson for the university says: "Chaplains and religious representatives are appointed by the university for the moral and spiritual care of its students. The university made this appointment in accordance with its statutes."

For the former Protestant and retired education officer, however, the first semester wasn't all plain sailing, as she encountered awkwardness and attempted to dispel some myths about the Godless faith.

"First of all, the word chaplain is not very important. I would like people to look beyond that because what I am is really the Humanist representative," she says. "I have found it very exciting and very good so far. I saw my first task as raising awareness because Humanism is not out there. Even people who don't believe in God would not often put that label on themselves."

She gathered together a small group of students interested in Humanism. Their application to become an affiliated society is expected to be ratified by the student council later this month.

Progress is being made against the odds. As a secular institution, Queen's leaves chaplains to their own devices.

"They make the appointment and give the title but that is as far as they go. They don't provide me with an office and I'm more or less on my own,” explains Mrs Yeo. "The mainstream denominations such as the Presbyterians and Roman Catholics have the wealth of their church behind them so they have buildings, chaplaincies, staff and rooms beside the university. As a Humanist I have nothing."

Mrs Yeo did not feel she was welcomed with open arms by some of the other chaplains and felt many were suspicious of her atheist beliefs. "I experienced a little bit of opposition in the beginning from the mainstream churches but nothing terribly overt,” she says. "There was just that wee bit of stand-offishness in September but since then we have got to know each other better. They saw Humanists as being aggressive so I'm always trying to show that I am not. We are not out to convert. My idea is to open up the debate and to get people talkng. When I approached them (mainstream churches) I didn't feel I was getting the co-operation back. It's better now but certainly not at the beginning. It was shocking because to me that is not what Christianity is."

The chaplain recalls one particular incident at the freshers fayre when she was approached by a student: “She asked what Humanism was all about. I explained and she looked at me and said, ‘I think you are sad. Very, very sad and I'm going to go away and pray for you', and away she went. What she did was show me how blinkered her thinking was."

The 64-year-old, born in Belfast, had a strict Protestant upbringing. She went to Sunday School as a child and became a teacher. In her adolescent years she began to question religion and the existence of God. It took time for her to make the full conversion though, and she has been a Humanist for 20 years. So why did she reject God and what is Humanism to her?

"I suppose as I looked around the world, religion hasn't always done good. It has been involved in wars and a lot of bad things have happened in the name of religion. There are a lot of people who seem to live a very good life, they go to church, read the Bible, do good works, and yet they'll be struck down with an illness or something terrible happens to them. I couldn't see where this loving God, that I had been brought up to believe existed, was in all of this.

"When I was about 15 or 16 I went to a rally and the speaker said if we didn't come to the front of the hall and sign the paper we would burn in hell. And I remember thinking, once I'd signed the piece of paper, that I was going to be ok and that I wasn't going to burn in hell. That is such a horrific, terrible thing.

"I remember learning about Egypt in geography in school. The teacher said that once a year all the silt from the mountainside swept into the Nile. It was red clay that made the river look like blood. I understood that and liked that story rather than saying God turned the river into blood. The scientific logic appealed to me and that was the first time I realised that I liked clear scientific explanations. Humanism is about rational thinking. All I say to people is don't just accept everything you've been told. Have a think and even if you come back and say no I'm still happy with God and the Bible then that's fine."

But it wasn't just the clamouring for clearer answers to life's complex questions that drove her to Humanism. "I felt I was living with this guilt and fear all the time that if I didn't do right I wouldn't go to heaven. Humanism for me takes away the guilt and fear that religion gave me. The loss of guilt and fear is the incentive for me. I don't have that fear that I will burn in the fires of hell and I don't have the guilt of doing wrong and being a sinner. Humanism also takes away hypocrisy. I think a lot of people call themselves religious but all they are doing is paying lip service to it.

"We say lead as good a life as you can. There is still a misconception that because you don't have God or a religion then you can't have any morals. We do have a moral compass and know what is right and wrong."

She also insists that Humanist weddings, funerals, and christenings are powerful and poignant occasions. The absence of God and religion makes them even more relevant, she suggests. Humanist christenings are called naming ceremonies while a wedding could take place in a hotel and would have no references to God.

Mrs Yeo says: "For all these ceremonies the people involved are invited to put together their own service. They would choose poetry, songs, and maybe write their own vows. It would be very personal to them.

"A Humanist funeral is a celebration of life. Recently I went to a religious funeral and the minister quite blatantly used the opportunity of having an audience to deliver a sermon. It was totally nothing to do with the person who had died. I don't want to hear talk about repentance on an occasion of grief. I want to be told about the person who died and anyone who has been to a Humanist funeral will always say that was lovely because it was about the person."

Mrs Yeo believes religion is a personal thing. It shouldn't be in politics and there shouldn't be faith schools. She feels mixed schools where all religions are taught is the way forward and she is hopeful that people will sit up and take note of Humanism.

"There are so many people who maybe wouldn't call themselves a Humanist but have moved away from religion,” she adds.

"In Northern Ireland it is very difficult to stand up and say, ‘I'm a Humanist and I don't believe in God’. On a personal basis I have had friends who have been quite shocked that I would say that. I hope more people will have the courage to say they don't believe in God."

Belfast Telegraph Monday 18, February 2008